Upcoming events
FASCINATION
FROM THE ORGANIZERS:
FASCINATION is a gear/ fetish/ kink space for a wide array of queer kinksters across the North East with regular events in Boston, New York and Provincetown. DJs Colby Drasher and ZoilaRosa Z are our residents and spin techno, tech/deep house, electronica and other dark and sexy grooves. The event also features visuals by Michael Flowers highlighting both original footage as well as scenes from vintage kink cinema. We host guest demos led by local members of the Imp@ct, Rope, Leather, Rubber, Pet, Furry, Leatherdyk3 and broader BDSM community. Although the event is leather inspired, we are looking to bring together a diverse and gender inclusive cross section of Boston fetish culture (rubber, sports gear, bondage, S&M, pet play, furry, abdl) by creating a space for folks in the community to meet up.
Moans
From the Organizers:
𝑴𝒐𝒂𝒏𝒔 is a steamy, sexy bathhouse party soundtracked by your favorite queer DJs, held at a luxurious private spa in Brooklyn. 𝑴𝒐𝒂𝒏𝒔 centers trans and non-binary folks, while enthusiastically welcoming all queer people into the fantasy.
At 𝑴𝒐𝒂𝒏𝒔, those of us who haven’t always felt welcome in locker rooms, bathhouses, or s-x parties can indulge in shared sensuality. Spa amenities include a wet and dry sauna, steam room, hot tub, cold pool, locker rooms, showers, play space, and a dance floor. We celebrate fluidity—within ourselves and between each other—exploring where our identities blur and sweat. This space is for trans folks, enbies, f4gs, d¥kes, bi and pansexuals, GNCs, and all queer people committed to bodily and erotic liberation. Come get your opulence and your freak on, all under one roof.
We encourage those with means (especially cis folks) to buy Sponsor tickets to help make sensual spa culture accessible for all trans people.
Not your daddy’s bathhouse—unless he can hang with the dolls.
AMENITIES
Russian Sauna, Swedish Sauna, Thermal Hot Tub, Arctic Cold Plunge Pool, Spacious Locker Rooms with Bathrooms and Showers, Play Space, Dry Lounge with Bar and Dance Floor
ACCESS
The spa is all on the ground floor, with no stairs, and a ramp to the front door.
This is a bathhouse, which is composed of numerous wet spaces of various temperatures. Please wear clothing and footwear appropriate for this environment. Think beach, not bar, or go naked. (Towels are provided!) Bathhouses are places with varying temperatures, slippery surfaces, and constant chlorination and chemical sanitation.
We require cell phones or electronic devices to not be in our space. If you require an accommodation for medical/caregiving/etc reasons, please secure any devices in a watersafe pouch, and use them only in non-play spaces.
RESPECT
Moans is a bathhouse sex party created and run by trans and non-binary folks, with the intent to specifically center all trans and non-binary folks. We also welcome cis accomplices who stand in solidarity with us! We do require respect, an open mind, and consent. Please do not make assumptions about people’s identities, sexual orientation / preferences, or language for their genitals.
Moans has a zero-tolerance policy around discrimination or harassment towards race, gender, sexuality, disability, size, age, appearance, gender, genitals, kinks, for using condoms, for not using condoms, for being thirsty, for being shy, for being naked, for wearing "too much," for wearing the "wrong" thing, or for who they are in any other capacity.
CONSENT
Moans is a space that celebrates classic cruising culture, in a consent-forward practice. Please note that ambiguity does not qualify as affirmative consent. In other words, this is not an “implied consent” space. Verbal consent prior to physical engagement is strongly preferred, although we do acknowledge that non-verbal consent can be real. Either way, Moans REQUIRES that prior to any specific sexual act, all parties to acknowledge that participation is welcome from anyone engaging with each other. Consent can be revoked or renegotiated at any time, and substance use can impair consent.
Treat anyone declining you with respect. Feel free to give any honest and friendly proposal an equally respectful declination if you're just not feeling it right then. Respect any request for more space or privacy. Please do not bring your cell phone or photography into our space.
In short, explicitly asking is the golden standard, and "no" always means "no" in this space.
COVID POLICY:
We strongly suggest that you test before MOANS. If you receive a positive test or are feeling sick, please stay home. Since there is not room at the venue to offer rapid tests at the door we are not requiring proof of a negative test on site. Take care of yourself. Take care of your community.
TRANSFERNO: GOTH NIGHT
FROM THE ORGANIZERS:
Saturday, November 29 is GOTH NIGHT at TRANSFERNO, and DJ RAW ED will be on deck to make our dark and labyrinthine dungeon pulse with ecstatic melodies and even darker beats. Descend into the darkness, beneath the city streets, your boots taking the stairs one by one until you open onto… a dungeon, a throbbing maze of half-shadowed temptations. You hear the sounds of flesh beating against flesh in time with an ancient and futuristic song you instinctively know by heart. Dress up, dress down or undress & become one with the sexy Transferno crowd. Are you ready?
Hosted by @mini_husky @krisgreystudio & Adam
Flyer by @dandy_pansy
Carnal: House of HORRORS
FROM THE ORGANIZERS:
Welcome to CARNAL:
💀🩸 House of Horrors 🩸💀
Friday 10/24
10pm-4am
>> Your worst nightmare and your darkest fantasy <<
💀 Haunted glory holes
🩸 Disturbing performances
💀 Fucked up films
🩸 Kill room
Blood will be spilled and holes will be filled
⚠️ ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK ⚠️
MORE INFO ON IG: @carnal.nyc
T4T TAKEOVER: FIRE ISLAND
FROM THE EVENT ORGANIZERS: @t4t.takeover.nyc
T 4 T TAKEOVER IS BACK!!!!
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Bring your best kinky, pervy selves for this amazing and affirming weekend! The Theme is ‘IT’S CAMP!’ 🏕️
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Think… Scouts, S’Mores, Camp fires, Gay Camp!
Bring your besties and your polycules for a grand kinky night of pleasure and desire. Hosted once again at the historical @belvederefireisland located in Cherry 🍒 Grove on THE ONE & ONLY 😉 FIRE ISLAND 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ during @transcelebrationweekend September 13-15, 2024!!!
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More Details to come as the event gets closer! Tell Your friends!
BAD TASTE
BAD TASTE is a QTPOC-centered play party for kinksters and leatherqueers committed to a COVID-safer lifestyle.
Any profit from ticket sales will be donated back into community mutual aid funds.
BRUISE: TGIRL TAKEOVER
FROM THE EVENT ORGANIZERS:
Calling all pets and trainers, it’s time for BRUISE Tgirl Takeover: Heavy Petting Zoo 🐾 On Sunday August 24th, @irisxeclipse and @princessdykebait are on their paws and knees for you to come out in your favorite hood, your sexiest trainer gear, or your roommate’s pair of cat ears.
With music by DJ Resilience, every bunny, coyote, and cow (oh my!) will get their tails wagging on the dance floor ✨
Bruise is a free monthly party for Leather Queers of all genders hosted by @fantasticat and @daemonumx at The Rosemont. They welcome perversion and light play (keep it legal to health code regulations, as this is a bar)!
@therosemontnyc is a gay bar located on the ground floor with one small step to enter. There is an open air patio in the back with one step down to enter. We ask that you please mask indoors!!! See the hosts if you need an extra mask.
TRANSFERNO: hot trash
FROM THE ORGANIZERS:
The dog-in-heat days of summer are here and what better way to make them memorable than going a little feral. This season's summer ending (8.30) TRANSFERNO: HOT TRASH features a soundtrack of punk, garage, metal & more, to evoke your hard edged sleazoid fantasies!
Flyer by @ivnalvarado & @mini_husky
TRANSFERNO is currently our most popular party, centering Trans guys & trans masculine people in a historically gay space, to explore a wide spectrum of trans desire! We WELCOME & ENCOURAGE ALL GENDERS to come thru & enjoy. If you feel curious or like you might belong, you do belong. This is an inclusive queer party that welcomes all genders and presentations; T4T, cis and trans folks who have experience with trans guys, cis and trans folks who have no experience with trans guys, every imaginable identity embodiment and configuration. NBs, femme spectrum, and trans femmes we love you!
Hosted by @mini_husky @krisgreystudio & Adam Inferno
KINDRED TIES: VAMP NIGHT
FROM THE ORGANIZERS: IG kindredtiesnyc
Time to have a bl00dy good time at our sharps jam exclusive for POC! 🩸
💉Aug 24th from 2-5p!
Join in for 101 blood and needle education or come thru to show out if you’re an advanced player!
Dress up as your fav blood sucking creature for our photobooth and get featured on our ig! 🧛🏿🧛🏾🧛🏽💋
Carnal: CAMP
FROM THE ORGANIZERS @carnal.nyc:
Ready for a filthy little summer getaway? 🥵
Welcome to CAMP CARNAL — where naughty meets nostalgic 🏕️😈
Enjoy your favorite innocent traditions with a p*rverted twist: craft k*nky friendship bracelets, swap secrets in the 0rgy fort, and make your crush a sticky s’more before licking the marshmallow off their “face” 😝
Whether you’re a bratty camper or a sadistic counselor, CAMP CARNAL is your chance to bring those wet hot summer fantasies to life 💦
MOANS
More details and line-up coming SOON!
Follow @moans.nyc for all the updates ✨
Flyer assist from @hotwelcome.studio
BRUISE
FROM THE ORGANIZERS:
To kick off BRUISE’s big move to SUNDAYS, we have our 3rd annual Throat Goat competition 🏆 on Sunday July 20th! 6 contestant performers will be judged on their *ahem* abilities by our panel of experts for their chance at the 2025 sash!
This has historically been one of the nastiest evenings in Bruise history, and we hope this year tops them all. To sign up please fill out the form linked in my bio.
Judges Panel:
2024 winners @saintaverycarter @godisniyalove
@mini_husky
Mahx Capacity
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Bruise is a free monthly party for Leather Queers of all genders hosted by @fantasticat and me at The Rosemont. We welcome perversion and light play (keep it legal to health code regulations, as this is a bar)!
Bawdy
From the Organizers:
Bawdy is back for our quarterly wet and wild fun! Once again I’ll be your DJ providing the soundtrack to your ecstasy!
This summer’s party is Saturday, July 19 in Brooklyn.
Bawdy is an exclusively queer, freaky evening inside a fully rented out spa where your slippery fantasies come true.
Locker room bullying, drowned in the cold plunge, massage from a stranger... anyone?!?!?!
Sign up for the ticket lottery here!
30 free tickets always reserved for Black community members.
THE CRUISING SPOT
FROM THE ORGANIZERS:
🚨 BROOKLYN! Get ready for a new kind of heat! 🚨
Introducing The Cruising Spot, a brand new play party hitting Brooklyn on July 11th at 10 PM! 🔥
We’re taking over Pickles Playground an iconic steamy basement dungeon packed with new equipment and toys for you to explore.
This epic night is brought to you by your favorite hosts: The Rhino Mxter TBRU 2025
Brooklyn Bear
Circuit Dad (he made this beautiful flyer😍)
Red Panda Matt. Mr Mayhem Leather 2025
DJ tokenblackfriend
But it’s not just about the good times – it’s about giving back. All proceeds from The Cruising Spot will go directly to the Black Trans Mutual Aid Group @blacktransmutualaid . Come play, and support an incredible cause!😇
Ready to dive in? Fill out the vetting form (link in bio!) for tickets and location details. You won’t want to miss this one.
#TheCruisingSpot #BrooklynPlayParty #QueerNightlife #DungeonParty #PlayParty #SupportBlackTransLives #NYCQueer #MutualAid #bearparty
Obscenity
PARTY IS POSTPONED!!
ORGANIZER’S DESCRIPTION:
Catacombs Hellscape
Vetting has reopened (in bio @obscenity_nyc).
Descend into the Catacombs for a night of lusting for leather, depravity, f!sts, and filth. Enter the cacophony of perversion.
An homage to sleazy and sweaty leather parties: the events whose flyers you’d only find in p!ss soaked alleys, stories you’d only hear of from the lips of fellow perverted leather freaks.
Cruising and pick-up play are both heavily emphasized and encouraged.
This event is 21+ and invitation-only for leather d*kes/f*gs/queers with a priority to BIPOC, Trans Femmes, and SWers.
Produced by @silk.riot & @michamalvada
CARNAL: CARNIVAL
ORGANIZER DESCRIPTION:
CARNAL
An edge play play for queer kinksters
Step right up, freaks! The CARNAL CARNIVAL is rolling into town for PRIDE weekend with a deviant night of danger and debauchery
Enjoy perverted games, filthy films, bizarre performances, and a twisted kill room. The CARNAVAL is your wicked playground to unleash your hedonist desires — so come walk the tightrope with us and get ready for a thrilling ride
This is a Pride Party in celebration of kinky deviants and eccentric queerness!
THIRST
JUNE 26TH 8PM-2AM
📍@chocolatefactoryvibes
70 Scott Ave, Brooklyn
💦FROM THIRST💦
@acidickxx
@bobbylemaire
@cherry.jaymes
@facefrfr
@honeythegem
@jaifromvenus
@junostardust
@marshobrecker
🎪FROM THE PLAYHOUSE🎪
@bakuela_
@theyarebecky
@blainepetrovia
@coco.chanelll24
@iamsativah
@yungpolemaster
🎤MC🎤
@charleneincarnate
🎧SOUNDS BY🎧
@itsadair_
@tellevangeline
@ahighlysensitiveblackwoman
🐈⬛STAGE KITTENS🐈⬛
@onlycaroli
@loosebirthcontrolpills
@justrogueroguing
💰BANK BADDIES💰
@louisetheillatease
@skymall98
@boy.georgemichael
DJs + more late night talent joining to dance with us all night long 💋
A portion of profits from this event will go towards the work being done by @decrimsexwork
Bruise Pride
FROM THE ORGANIZERS:
Wake up babes, IT’S BRUISE PRIDE!!! On Tuesday June 24 join us for our 3RD Annual Wet Anything (T-shirt/tighty whites/thong/whatever!!) Contest!!! Wear white and show up by 9 if you want to sign up for your chance to win Fame, Glory, and $150 in cold hard cash. Bring a towel 😉
Music by @brookebjorneboe
Bruise is a free monthly party for Leather Queers of all genders hosted by @fantasticat and me at The Rosemont. We welcome perversion and light play (keep it legal to health code regulations, as this is a bar)!
@therosemontnyc is a gay bar located on the ground floor with one small step to enter. There is an open air patio in the back with one step down to enter. We ask that you please mask indoors!!! See the hosts if you need an extra mask.
LSM Presents: Some Like It HOT Play Party
ORGANIZER’S DESCRIPTION:
LSM's Summer Play Party. Get all 🥵 at Folsom Street East to get🔥 with us.
LSM Presents: Some Like It HOT Play Party
Sunday, June 15 | 5-11pm
NEW LOCATION in Alphabet City!
(In case you hadn’t heard, Temptations has closed. 😢 We think you’ll enjoy the new space. Details in the eventbrite.)
Volunteer and ticket release schedule:
May 5 | 8p ET: Volunteer form opens (get your tix locked in early!) Members get 1st dibs.
May 18 | 8p ET: Member ticket sales begin
May 28 | 8p ET: General ticket sales begin
Mark your calendars. Volunteer slots are assigned first come, first served. Historically, our parties sell out quickly.
More party details TO COME!
(Wanna learn how to DM in time for the party? Check out our DM training on Sunday, May 5. Link in the IG bio @LSM_NYC)
About L3sbian S3x Mafia:
Membership in the LSM is open to all women regardless of level of experience or time in the kink community so long as they are at least 18 years of age. LSM is a trans-inclusive organization and accepts applications from all women, as well as nonbinary, genderqu33r, and transmasc people, so long as they feel they have a connection to qu33r women’s community. We are a support and information group for those who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S / M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited s3xual expression in a safe, consensual, and confidential way.
FOLSOM STREET EAST
ORGANIZER’S DESCRIPTION:
BOUND TOGETHER
On June 15th, Folsom Street East returns with BOUND TOGETHER. In their words, “When the rights of our community are under attack, we have to act! We are bound together in resistance and sexual liberation. Celebrate a day of body positivity, music, and kinky vendors and organizations.”
🎫 Tickets are on sale now by visiting their website 🎫
Volunteer, Exhibitor, and Performer applications can be found on their website under the “Contact” tab.
Folsom Street East is proud to support this year’s beneficiaries:
@new_alternatives_nyc
@princessjanaeplace
@vamos_juntos_
@galaeiphilly
Flyer by @michaelmartinflowers
SUBMIT PRESENTS: PARK MUNCH
ORGANIZER’S DESCRIPTION:
Need to reconnect with nature & other queer leather freaks this Pride? SUBMIT has you covered!!!
🗓️Saturday, June 14th SUBMIT presents:
🏕️🖤PARK MUNCH 🖤🏕️
🕰️ From 3pm-6pm @ Picnic House Lawn in Prospect Park off Prospect Park W off the F and G train lines. You can spot us by the Trans Pride flag we’ll have up 🏳️⚧️🖤 A great pre-game before Brooklyn Pride Parade!!! This is BYOB (responsibly, we’ll be in public!) - Please bring a blanket and other comfort supplies, snacks you like and join us for a cute cruise & chill!! Crafts and games welcomed! Note that this is OPEN TO ANYONE, not just vetted members ;^)
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Flyer by @sillymelonpokes
MORE DETAILS BY FOLLOWING @SUBMIT.NYC ON IG
Rabbit Hole T4T
ORGANIZER’S DESCRIPTION:
Back again with that hot and sexy T4T action you know & love 😩 😮💨 😏
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@toolbox.collective ,created to address the systemic inequites in access to sexual health and pleasure products, apparel and education join forces with @rabbithole.t4t to get your toolbox hot & bother as we come together to celebrate Pride Month! 🏳️🌈
This isn’t just your usual get together either, we gather June 13th to raise funds towards Toolbox Collectives efforts in securing a store front!! 😈
T4T PARTIES SUPPORTING TRANS OWNED BUSINESSES?!?! HELL YES!!!! 🏳️⚧️
Tickets start at $25!!
BIPOC/TransFemme tickets reduced!!!
We will be doing Door tickets!!!!!
Sounds by: @quetamine.png & house DJs @onyx__odyssey & @zippeee
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VETTING REQUIRED TO ATTED
COVID TESTING REQUIRED TO ATTEND
LINK IN BIO @RABBITHOLE.T4T
